I will be jealousy of my gf’s opposite gender buddy
- Have always been we over responding to the relationship?
- Must I speak to him and explain myself?
- Should we all venture out to lunch and progress to understand one another?
- Keep it alone totally?
We have a wonderful gf that i’ve been dating for 4 yrs. This woman is extremely sweet—almost and outgoing flirtatious.
She recently went back into university. She’s met another(older that is male class mate that she has received inside her classes. He could be excellent and it has generously aided her with research. They see one another nearly every time and also have a joking relationship. He nevertheless assists her a great deal. I’ve just met him fleetingly.
She states that he could be extremely nice—very smart and that she likes him a whole lot.
She’s said which he is her buddy. He has got informed her that he’s a distance that is long too. He’s told my gf that she actually is a “very unique friend” to him aswell. He’s got additionally offered her gifts that are small.
My gf has explained about—he is only a friend and nothing more that I have nothing to worry. She’s talked to him a great deal that i am wonderful and that she loves me about me and tells him.
Recently she’s got been venturing out to lunch with him (alone) sufficient reason for other classmates that are male him—college buddies. It has made me personally uncomfortable—she seems that I am blowing it away from percentage but has told him that they must stop going out because much because i actually do perhaps not realize their relationship. He said and agreed which he comprehended my emotions.
Clearly they will nevertheless see one another and research together and she stated which they would nevertheless venture out to lunch when in some time.
I’m a jealous person—this style of situation does make me personally uncomfortable.
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